Who Would Have Thought That In Happiness There Is So Much Sadness!

Who would have thought that in happiness there is so much sadness!

The world will break your heart in all possible ways. This is little but sure and I am not able to give you an explanation, just as I am not able to give it to you for the madness I carry inside and for what others carry inside. Life is never fair, but you have to face the blows and move on. When your heart is broken you have to rebuild it, not only that, you have to start trusting others again, and this is the hardest part. Despite everything, even if life shatters all your dreams, you have to keep hoping. And do you know why? Because if you don’t hope, if you don’t dream, if you don’t love… What kind of life are you living? Why do you want a life if you don’t know how to enjoy it? You cannot live in fear forever. Life is like this: you fall, you get up and then you fall again. However, if you do not move even for fear of falling, in reality you are already going to peak …

– Bright side

In my life, I have known many people who have not been able to use the stones at their disposal to build something: they would trip over them or load them on their backs. I did too.

In reality, as Benedetti said, I would never have said that there was so much sadness in happiness. I was convinced of quite another thing, that is, that happiness was a path of roses without thorns, and not of stones or impervious obstacles.

But I was not completely wrong, and you only begin to understand this when you are ready to be happy: happiness implies suffering, it is a strange condition that only the strong can resist.

How funny, right? In truth, it is not so strange to think that happiness implies fullness, to understand that it is an emotional balance to reach which sadness and difficulties are necessary.

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This is why I am convinced that I need to grieve and feel pain in order to fulfill all my purposes. It would be a real shame not to take advantage of the effort it takes to get up after a fall.

I’ll be honest with you: I haven’t always got up after my falls, and I think it’s among the most normal things in the world. It is precisely from the defeats that I have learned the most, because being shrouded in darkness made me realize that it is really worth getting up, even if the storm has exhausted us.

After all, it is not possible to see the rainbow without a little rain. I think being aware of this makes me a lucky person, because it means that life has treated me with consideration and taught me lessons.

In short, I came to the conclusion that, on our path, there are many positive and negative things. This is not bad, but something necessary.

In fact, the most beautiful things in the world are enveloped in a great crudeness: after life there is death, which always involves a farewell; love can turn into madness and it can even turn into lack of love. All wonderful moments in life have an end.

This is precisely what makes them special. We need to pay attention to the signs to understand when life is giving us good times. If we want to see or do something, we must feel the need to do it in the best possible way.

Never stop doing something for fear of failure, remember that happiness also involves sadness, which is not a price to pay, but a necessary step.

“If we fall, it may be because we are walking along unknown paths”.

Image courtesy of Christian Schloe

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